Start Small.....

Start small.

Don't try to make all these huge changes, and change your entire life at once. It's too hard, and overwhelming. You can't do everything at once — you can only do one thing at a time.

So pick one thing to change — something easy. Don't pick the most difficult thing — just the easiest. Something you can focus on for the next couple of weeks.

Be sure you're going to be successful at it — again, it should be super easy.

Then clear everything else off your plate and focus on just that. Really put all your energy into making that change. You might try something simple, like smile more, or to be more grateful (say a prayer of thanks in the morning, and show gratitude to people throughout the day), or focus on slowing down as you do your work or chores.

Start small, and be sure to make this a success. Once you've had that success, use that feeling of success to leverage a second success — something small that you can win at, again. Keep repeating this, small successes, one after the other.

Small steps. That's how you're going to change your life. You'll probably get impatient and want to do more, but trust me: this will work.